Do you ever get the feeling that your life is spinning out of control and there’s no way to grab the reigns again and set things straight? I’ve been there, and it’s not a good place to be. Weeks and months go by while you almost feel like a prisoner of yourself, sitting on the sidelines while you watch the world buzzing around you while at the same time you seem to be in slow motion.
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You love change, and as soon as you start to see some success with something you’re onto the next ‘it thing’ because you’ve already proven the current system. Like an endless amount of puzzle boxes, each with its own set of rules and rewards. Once you’re even able to just peak at the contents of the box, seeing the prize is a reward in itself, and for some of us, that’s more than enough to move onto the next puzzle box. Change junkies only ever glimpse success…sure, we will glimpse more possible successes than most other people, but we’ll never be able to tell our own success story.
You’ve read enough books, listened to enough audio tapes and watched enough training videos. Pick a system… any system. They almost all work if you take the massive action that is required.
Before you give up on whatever it is that you’re currently engaged in, take a second and ask yourself if you’re a change junkie. If you are, then you might want to give what you’re working on a second chance and see if you can’t push through the rough times to creating your own success story.
It’s really easy to get caught up doing many things each and every day that you really do not want to do. This was one of the big reasons that I moved overseas. By leaving the comfort of my childhood reference group and moving somewhere that I did not understand the language I suddenly had far fewer distractions vying for my attention. It was bliss for a time. Four years overseas later I started to feel the need to move somewhere else once again in order to gain control of my life. After looking at many possible relocation options I realized that moving was not the answer, but rather that I was the problem. I was too often like water when I needed to be like stone. Water bends and sways to the forces around it while stone does not easily yield to external forces. A mental shift was needed but as I had tried to change before with little success and a new approach was definitely required.
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I imagine, if you’re anything like me that you’ve had many great ideas over the course of your life but now that it’s time to pull the trigger on something you’re getting what some many refer to as cold feet. I’m in this place right now so you’re not alone. It seems like there’s so many possibilities out there that it’s hard to choose what the best one is.
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